Terms of Service

• Account holders — couples (and anyone they invite to help plan) who create a You Do, I Do account to plan a wedding.
• Guests — anyone who submits an RSVP, message, photo, or other content through a public wedding site, without creating an account.
• Vendors and venues — anyone who lists or claims a business on You Do, I Do.
• Marketplace users — anyone who lists, buys, rents or messages about an item in the marketplace.

References to "you" apply to whichever role applies to your use of the Service.

You Do, I Do is currently provided free of charge, with no fees for couples or vendors. We may introduce paid features or pricing in the future; if we do, we'll give you reasonable advance notice before any change that affects you, and continuing to use a paid feature after that notice takes effect means you accept the new pricing.

You're responsible for keeping your login credentials confidential and for all activity under your account. If you invite others to plan your wedding with you, you're responsible for choosing who gets access and what they can do, and each person is responsible for how they use it. Notify us right away if you believe your account has been compromised.

You retain ownership of the content you submit to You Do, I Do — guest list details, budget information, photos, messages, itinerary details, and anything else you upload or enter (your "Content"). By submitting Content, you grant You Do, I Do a limited license to host, store, and display it as necessary to operate the Service — for example, showing a guest's RSVP photo on your public wedding site, or a guest's song request to the couple.

You're responsible for your own Content. Don't submit anything that:

• infringes someone else's copyright, trademark, privacy, or other rights (for example, a photo you don't have the right to share);
• is unlawful, harassing, or abusive; or
• contains someone else's personal information without their consent.

We can remove Content that violates these Terms or that we're required to remove by law, though we don't proactively monitor everything submitted.

Marketplace. When you list something in the marketplace, the listing (photos, title, price, description, your first name and pickup town) is public. You confirm the item is yours to sell and isn't on the not-allowed list shown on the sell form. Sales and rentals happen directly between the two people involved: You Do, I Do isn't a party to them, doesn't handle payment or deposits, and doesn't vouch for any item or person. Agree the terms of a rental (dates, deposit, condition on return) between yourselves before handing anything over. We can take down any listing or conversation.

When you (a couple) create a public wedding site, anyone with the link can view the information you choose to make public — including RSVP forms, itinerary details, and guestbook photos/messages guests submit. Don't include anything on your public site that you or your guests wouldn't want visible to anyone with the link.

Photos and messages guests post to your guest wall wait for your approval before they appear, and you can remove any of them later. Approving a post is your choice to show it to everyone with the link.

You Do, I Do lets you discover and message wedding vendors and venues, including ones in our catalog and any you contact directly. You Do, I Do doesn't vet, endorse, or guarantee the quality, availability, pricing, or conduct of any vendor or venue— any agreement, payment, or dispute between you and a vendor/venue is between you and them. Budget estimates and cost data shown in the Service are informational only, based on general/regional averages, and aren't a quote, guarantee, or substitute for getting your own pricing from vendors.

If you list or claim a business on You Do, I Do, you confirm you're authorized to represent it and that you own, or have permission to share, every photo and detail you submit. You grant You Do, I Do a non-exclusive, royalty-free license to display that listing content publicly in the Service — on your listing page, in search results and maps, in previews shown to couples, and on the wedding websites and planning dashboards of couples who have chosen or saved your venue — until you ask us to remove it. We review submissions before they go live and may edit or decline them.

The Attire section shows clothing and rings sold by other companies. Buying or renting happens on the retailer's own site, under its terms, prices, shipping and returns; You Do, I Do isn't the seller. Prices we show are approximate, with the date we last checked them, and the retailer's price is final. Some links are affiliate links: if you buy through one, You Do, I Do may earn a commission from the retailer, at no extra cost to you. We say so next to those links. A retailer appearing in Attire doesn't mean it endorses or partners with You Do, I Do beyond that link.

Some features use AI to draft things for you, such as contract summaries and dates, thank-you notes, answers and suggested changes from Wren, the planning assistant, and listing text for vendors and venues. AI can get things wrong. Treat its output as a starting point to check, not as legal, financial or professional advice, and check anything important (a contract date, a payment amount) against the original. Nothing Wren suggests changes your plan until you confirm it.

Any referral code shown in your account is for informal tracking only. It doesn't create a binding commission, discount, or payment obligation between you, You Do, I Do, and any vendor unless separately and explicitly agreed in writing.

The Service is provided "as is" and "as available," without warranties of any kind, express or implied, including warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, or non-infringement. We don't guarantee the Service will be uninterrupted, error-free, or secure.

To the fullest extent permitted by law, You Do, I Do isn't liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages, or for any loss of data, revenue, or goodwill, arising from your use of the Service — including any dispute with a vendor or venue, or reliance on budget estimates. Our total liability for any claim relating to the Service is limited to the amount you paid us in the twelve months before the claim arose (which, while the Service is free, is $0).

You can stop using the Service and permanently delete your account at any time from your Account page. We may suspend or terminate access to the Service for anyone who violates these Terms.

We may update these Terms from time to time. If we make material changes, we'll post the updated Terms here with a new effective date. Continued use of the Service after changes take effect means you accept the updated Terms.

These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of California, without regard to conflict-of-laws principles.

Questions about these Terms? Contact us at hello@youdoido.com.